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Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion · chapter 2

Reciprocation: The Old Give and Take... and Take

So what

Reciprocity is real and commercially exploitable. The principle has genuine empirical support from field experiments, but the theoretical mechanism (reciprocal concessions) is weaker than Cialdini claims. The universality assertion is undermined by cross-cultural research.

Verdict

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Claims checked in this chapter (9)

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The norm of reciprocity is universal across human cultures -- every human society subscribes to the rule that obligates individuals to repay what they have received.
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The Hare Krishna donation technique -- giving a 'gift' flower before requesting donations -- is a powerful demonstration of reciprocity-based compliance that generated millions in revenue.
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The door-in-the-face (DITF) technique -- making a large request first, then retreating to a smaller one -- reliably increases compliance through reciprocal concessions.
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Dennis Regan's 1971 study showed that a person who had received an uninvited Coke from a confederate ('Joe') bought twice as many raffle tickets as those who received no favor, regardless of whether they liked Joe.
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Cialdini argues that the Watergate break-in was a product of the rejection-then-retreat technique: G. Gordon Liddy's initial outrageous $1 million plan made the eventual $250,000 break-in plan seem reasonable by comparison.
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The rejection-then-retreat technique not only increases compliance but also increases the likelihood that people will follow through on their agreement and volunteer for future requests -- tested in the zoo trip study where 50% agreed vs 17% control.
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Reciprocity operates as an 'uninvited debt' -- people feel obligated to repay favors they never asked for, which allows manipulators to exploit the rule by imposing unwanted gifts or favors.
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The Hare Krishna Society's airport solicitation technique -- giving a flower before requesting a donation -- was so effective that it funded the expansion of temples, businesses, and properties across the United States.
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Reciprocity can trigger unequal exchanges -- a small initial favor can produce a much larger return favor, as when a Coke worth a few cents produced raffle ticket purchases worth several dollars.